Thursday, January 26, 2012

Watchin Airplanes

Have you ever just sat and watched airplanes take off and fly? Or maybe you’ve sat by the tracks and watched as train after train passed by? I have and every time I do I’m left in a state of awe, because it’s such a beautiful thing to me. I’m not quite sure why, but every time I see a plane flying or a train traveling down the tracks it always sets me off on a long spiral of day dreams. I know it seems a bit ridiculous, but I love to day dream (what can I say I’ve always been a dreamer and always will be) maybe that’s why planes and trains are so beautiful to me…..or maybe it’s the countless mysteries they hold.


At first glance you may think a plane is just a plane and that a train simply a train, but you have to look deeper to see the mystery, you have to look closer to see the diamond in the dust. Every time I’m stopped at the tracks waiting for a train to pass or I look up and see a plane darting across the sky, I instantly begin wondering about the mysteries they hold. Where are they traveling to? How many passengers are there? What are the passengers like? Are they going on vacation? Maybe there is a soldier finally returning to his family? Perhaps there are some newlyweds on their way to a romantic honeymoon? Is one of the passengers is running away from their problems and off to a better life? 

These are just the first few questions that cross my mind, and then the day dreams begin. I dream the plane I saw is traveling to Italy, there’s an open seat, which is perfect because I’ve always wanted to go to Italy. Everyone on the plane is full of excitement, just waiting for the plane to land so their next adventure can begin. A young couple is sitting in the front row eagerly discussing their plans for their stay in the beautiful country; they’ve been planning this trip for years.  They will begin in Venice where they will take a gondola ride under The Bridge of Sighs, and tour St. Marks Square. Next they’ll visit the Coliseum in Rome, the Sistine Chapel in Vatican City, the ruins of Pompeii, and the beautiful waters of Capri. Finally they will finish off their trip by touring the beautiful vineyards of Tuscany.

Whoosh……

I’m off on another day dream, maybe the plane is returning from Afghanistan carrying a soldier who is finally returning to his family after a long prayerful year. His family awaits his return at the airport with a big banner and tears in their eyes, just thankful to be able to hug him again. Brothers and sisters eagerly waiting to see his smile and hear his voice, glad that their hero is finally home.

Whoosh….

The plane is traveling to California, carrying a teacher to a conference. On the plane he is calm and collected studying his notes and making corrections, and then he notices the nervous young girl next to him. He starts up a conversation to make her feel more comfortable, this is her first plane ride and she is traveling to see her big sister who moved away after graduation. She is still nervous, so the teacher tells her all about his daughter back home who is about the same age; she’s loves playing sports and has such a big caring heart. The teacher and girl continue to talk until the plane lands and reaches the gate; he helps her get her bag down and the kindly part ways never to see each other again.

I’ve found my way to the train tracks now, just as a 42 car train begins to pass by. Artists or vandals have been to work on this one, maybe both depending on how you see it. Each car that passes is different, beautiful, tasteful and artistic graffiti covering the sides. In the first car there is a mother with her teenage son, they’ve never been on a train before. Neither shows it, but they’re both enthralled. The son pressing his face against the glass of the window trying to get a better view of the graffiti, wishing he could open the door and lean out feeling the rushing wind in his face. The mother is taking careful pictures of everything that interests her, captivated by the beautiful country side racing by outside and her son’s funny fascination with being so close to the window. Silently they are both thankful they get to experience the adventure together.

Whoosh….

A few cars down an old drifter just lugged himself into the open door; he rolls onto his back exhausted. No idea where this train will lead, but it will be somewhere new, somewhere he hasn’t seen yet. He’s been hopping trains since he was in his twenties and traveled with a carnival. Those days long gone, now he’s just looking for a place to belong.

Whoosh….

Another car down a young woman sits, she’s never done anything like this before, but she just had to get away. She’s wanted to leave that town for as long as she can remember she craved more in her life than the boring repetition of her waitressing job and long line of guys who would never really care. The big fight with her so called friends was just the push she needed. Now she’s finally free and she’s dreaming big. As she sits alone with her thoughts a young man watches her, captivated not only by her beauty, but by something else he can’t quite put his finger on. It’s something different than all the other girls he sees each day, something deeper, something pure. He sits across the aisle pondering how to start a conversation. He talks himself into it, then out of it again. Finally, something inside him musters up enough courage and he sits down beside her and says hello, she lost in her thought is startled and can only respond with a blushing smile. They soon begin to laugh and talk like they had never been strangers.

Whoosh…

The train is gone and I’m brought back to reality, frozen in a state of awe. A smile instantly comes to my face as I think of all the mysteries planes and trains bring. For a moment I was able to escape the reality of day to day life and just wonder about the unseen possibilities these mysterious machines hold.  Sometimes I wonder if anyone else is sent into a spiral of day dreaming by the big, beautiful machines or maybe it’s just me. Whatever the case, I love that it happens to me.

 
(Photo by Jordan Bader)

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

My Forever Friend

This gorgeous young woman turned fifteen today.
Would you believe, that just fifteen short years ago, she was this beautiful baby girl?
It's true, but I can hardly believe it myself. You see this beautiful girl is my baby sister.....

I know, shocking isn't it.
Over the years I have had the privilege of watching her grow into the amazing young woman she is today. She is absolutely gorgeous.
Inside and out.
She is kind and polite to everyone she meets, loves and cares for those fortunate to be in her life, and a great listener for anyone wanting to talk. That's probably why people love being around her.
 She is extremely athletic and talented,
and she works hard at everything she does.
Most days she can be pretty girly, always picking out cute outfits, styling her hair, doing make-up and talking about boys non-stop.
She doesn't need any of it though, she would be drop dead gorgeous if she still dressed like this....
(on second thought, you might want to keep the cute outfits Booga!)

Even though she looks pretty girly, don't let her cuteness fool ya.
This girl ain't afraid to get dirty.
She loves being outdoors whether it's camping, climbing, hiking, or just a plain old romp in the woods. My baby sister is tough as nails and can do anything she puts her mind to.
I don't think she's afraid of anything.
If she is, she does a damn good job of conquering those fears.
She is a million different things all rolled into one perfectly sized person.
She is loyal and a great friend.
She is hilarious,
playful,
extremely goofy,
 and as she likes to point out all to often, a pretty good ba-donk-a-donk.

Best of all she's my sister, my forever friend.
Never try to be someone else, because you are perfect just the way you are baby girl. You are perfect as you.

I love you Booga!
Love, Jo

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

The Greatest Man I Know


Today was this wonderful man’s 40th birthday.

He is a very strong, smart, gentle, playful, loving individual and an amazing father to his 4 children. I should know I’m one of them.

I couldn’t ask for a better dad, because I don’t believe a better one exists. Maybe I’m a little bit biased, but my dad is pretty great. As I was growing up he taught my siblings and I right from wrong, the value of hard work and much much more.

As I look back I have countless memories with dad of hide n’ go seek in the dark, foot races down the street, tucking me into bed, costume parties, learning to ride a horse, camping trips, climbing excursions, building snow forts, playing various other odd games.....





  
and wrestling (we were always wrestling).




He’s always there to cuddle up next to the t.v. with after a bad day at school. Always ready with a hug and a smile to brighten your day. He gives the best advice (even though I don’t always take it) and is always ready to help me with anything I need. Whether it’s pushing me to get back on a horse after a stay in the hospital or to let me know “there’s more fish in the sea,” I know he’s always got my back.



Sometimes he even helps me fly.....



He’s full of weird and inappropriate comments and thinks he’s way funnier than he really is, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.


His weird sense of humor and ability to make anything fun has rubbed off on me, I think it’s rubbed off on all us kids.

    

He's extremely ornery and mischievous always ready to play a prank or give us a hard time. You can always tell by the look in his eyes.


My dad is a wonderful example and he has taught me so much. He’s taught me how to work hard for what I want while having the mind set to enjoy work. He’s taught me how to have fun and be myself, how to bless the people around me, he even taught me how to dance. Most importantly though he taught me Gods’ Word. Whenever I had a hard day growing up, I remember coming home and dad reading God’s Word to me or praying with me. He did the same when I was sick or hurt and I always felt better afterwards. I couldn’t ask for a better dad, he’s the best there is. I’m thankful for everything he has done for me over the years and everything he has taught me. I am grateful to be able to continue to learn from him and for his willingness to teach me. 


  Happy Birthday Dad! Thanks for all you do, I love you so much!! :)

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Dream BIG!!

There are so many things I want to do during my life, so many places to see, people to meet and goals to accomplish. So a few years ago I decided to jot all those things down and scratch them off as I complete them, sort of a bucket list I suppose. Tonight, for whatever reason, I decided I would share that list with y’all. Mainly, because I’ve had writers block for the past week and don’t know what else to write about. So here’s my Bucket List, in no particular order. Enjoy!

Bucket List
»       Learn to play an instrument
»       Speak God’s Word to an unbeliever
»       Continue to grow in God’s Word everyday
»       Fall in love and marry a man who has a working relationship with God
»       Have my own kids
»       Ride an elephant
»       Experience a legit Notebook kiss
»       Learn to cook a real Italian meal
»       Watch the Northern Lights
»       Spend an entire summer night doing nothing, but watching the stars from sunset to sunrise with someone I truly care about
»       Walk along the beach at night with an amazing guy
»       Never stop learning new things
»       Slow dance in a summer thunderstorm
»       Go white water rafting
»       Get married at a truly beautiful location in Kansas
»       Get my Bachelors degree in Animal Science and Industry
»       Get my Veterinary Assistant certification
»       Go to Veterinary school
»       Own a pet otter
»       Raise and break a horse on my own
»       Carry on my Grandma Bader’s holiday traditions
»       Read everything published by Edgar Allen Poe, Shakespeare, Mark Twain, and Steinbeck
»       Go bungee jumping at least once
»       Skydive
»       Learn how to base jump
»       Tour the entire country of Italy
»       Visit all 50 states and see their National monuments
»       Hike in every National forest
»       Swim with Dolphins
»       Scuba dive in the Great Barrier Reef
»       Learn to surf
»       Sit on top of the Hollywood sign
»       Backpack across Europe
»       Go on an African safari
»       Hike across the Galapagos Islands
»       Visit Greece
»       Learn to belly dance
»       Go on a cruise through the Panama Canal
»       See the Himalayans, Niagra Falls, Mount Kilimanjaro, and Mount Everest.
»       Visit the Australian outback
»       Go on a Jungle expedition
»       Experience an earthquake
»       Find something I’m passionate about and hold on to it
»       Go skiing and/or snowboarding
»       Learn to skateboard
»       Visit all of the 7 wonders of the ancient world, new world and natural wonders
»       Learn how to bow fish
»       Become fluent in Italian and Spanish
»       Stay best friends with my siblings’ my entire life
»       Never regret anything, but instead learn from my mistakes
»       Conquer ALL my fears
»       Write a song and a poem
»       Explore the Amazon
»       Spend at least a year away from everything I’ve known my whole life
»       Always appreciate the little things


I realize several of the things on this list are ridiculous, but it’s my list so I don’t care. :) I keep adding to it as I think of new things, hopefully I’ll get to achieve all of them. I realize there are a lot of things on this list and they’ll cost a lot of money, but hey if you’re going to dream you might as well dream big. So that’s what I’m doing, dreamin’ BIG, big as the ocean blue!
Do you have a bucket list? If you do share it! If not, you make one, its fun. DO IT! Here’s a song to help get ya started. :)


That’s All For Now Folks!